The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly: The Emotional & Mental Side of Exotic Entertainment

Handling Rejection and Slow Nights

Not every guest will be interested. As Dita Von Teese says, "You can be the ripest, juiciest  peach in the world and there is still going to be somebody who hates peaches." Learn to brush off rejection and focus on those who appreciate your presence. Some nights will be slow. Don't get discouraged. Your best night will likely be when one fan leaves you a huge tip and that fan can just as easily fall in love with you in an empty room as a crowded one.

Separating Your Work Persona from Your Real Identity

Many dancers use a stage name to create a separation between work and personal life. This helps maintain privacy and emotional distance from the job.

Dealing with Judgment

Not everyone will support your career choice. Be selective about who you share your profession with and create a strong support system of friends who understand the industry.